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发表于 10-7-2019 06:56 PM
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有一个马来西亚藏传佛教团体 FPMT的常驻法师仁波切（活佛）Dagri Rinpoche 也是涉嫌性侵女信众！！！
这位活佛在马来西亚也有不少信众的。他几个月前因为在飞机上非礼一位女乘客而在印度被控上法庭。
然后被踢爆10年前就开始性侵尼姑，这位尼姑现在已经不是尼姑了。下面是尼姑写的心路历程，很可怜。
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=14Bb4I2FHX4
Dear Tibet Star,
As I mention in the video description,
I didn’t enable the comments
because I am tired of hearing people defending him all these years and I’m just not putting up with this nonsense anymore,
I have already gone through all this before and it wasn’t easy.
I don’t have the physical time
or the emotional space
and energy to deal with people
who want to shame me again and again.
There’s enough harm already
and exposing myself like this
was already a very big step.
I need to protect my emotional stability
and carry on with my own life,
this issue is very absorbing,
for the first three weeks after the news,
I didn’t even have the time to do normal tasks of my daily life.
I need lots of energy at my work,
I need to concentrate,
even kind comments stir up my emotions a lot.
You must understand that that person ruined my life.
Because of the slander I lost everything,
I couldn’t work as a translator in the FPMT centers
after all those years of studying Tibetan.
I could not stay in the nunnery,
my abbess didn’t support me,
and betrayed me by presenting her apologies to him,
like if I was an embarrassment.
I didn’t have much money and
I finally had to give back my vows
to get a normal job in the west,
also, because I couldn’t see myself anymore
as a representative of a system that had failed me.
I lost friends, teachers, and many of the best years of my life.
I became an outcast, my self-esteem was destroyed
and I’m still a bit damaged.
Even though I’ve rebuilt my life from scratch, it wasn’t easy.
I’m lucky to have a new life now,
but most victims are still too traumatized to speak up.
From the other two victims I know of,
one has completely shut down and disappeared,
and the other one has been working on cancelling his teachings here and there (Australia and New Zealand) for years,
but not publicly.
I guess they saw what happened to me at the time
and couldn’t handle it.
I know a total of 6 concrete victims,
5 of which I know personally,
but the trauma is too deep,
they won’t expose themselves like I’ve done.
That is why the nuns from the petition
have requested a private investigation,
so that victims can speak up anonymously
and have their identity protected.
I guess my friend Adelaide has a similar feeling,
she was the only nun at IBD
with 30 monks in her class for almost 13 years.
She was going to be the second geshema after Kelsang Wangmo,
but she had to quit.
She was abused multiple times by monks,
almost raped once, good she knew martial arts.
Yours,
Jaki
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