The Five Love Languages - 5 句爱的话语

常想不思

你期望你的另一半/未来的另一半对你所表达/表示5句爱的话语，那一句对你来说最重要？

填完了之后，我们一同分享你的心里话。。。记得填上你选择哦。。。我先来吧！

由于是英文版本，大家就用点时间填上咯。因为没有softcopy, 我可是一粒一粒字打上去的。

Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, or Physical Touch? Which of these is your primary Love Language?
The profile consists of 30 pairs of statement. You can only pick one statement in each pair as the one that best represents your desire. Read each pair of statements, and then, in the right-hand column, circle the letter that matches up with the statement you choose. Once you’ve finished making your selections, go back and count the number of times you circled each individual profile. Your primary love language is the one that receives the most points.

1	Sweet notes from my husband make me feel good	A
	I love my husband’s hugs	E
2	I like to be alone with my husband	B
	I feel loved when my husband washes my car	D
3	Receiving special gifts from my husband makes me happy	C
	I enjoy long trips with my husband	B
4	I feel loved when my husband helps with the laundry	D
	I like it when my husband touches me	E
5	I feel loved when my husband puts his arm around me	E
	I know my husband loves me because he surprises me with gifts	C
6	I like going most anywhere with my husband	B
	1 like to hold my husband’s hand	E
7	I value the gifts my husband gives to me	C
	I love to hear my husband say he loves me	A
8	I like for my husband to sit close to me	E
	My husband tells me I look good, and I like that	A
9	Spending time with my husband makes me happy	B
	Even the smallest gift from my husband is important to me	C
10	I feel loved when my husband tells me he is proud of me	A
	When my husband helps clean up after a meal, I know that he loves me	D
11	No matter what we do, I love doing things with my husband	B
	Supportive comments from my husband make me feel good	A
12	Little things my husband does for me mean more to me than things he says	D
	I love to hug my husband	E
13	My husband’s praise means a lots to me	A
	It means a lot to me that my husband gives me gifts I really like	C
14	Just being around my husband makes feel good	B
	I love it when my husband gives me a massage	E
15	My husband’s reactions to my accomplishments are so encouraging	A
	It means a lot to me when my husband helps with something I know he hates	D
16	I never get tired of my husband’s kisses	E
	I love that my husband shows real interest in things I like to do	B
17	I can count on my husband to help me with projects	D
	I still get excited when opening a gift from my husband	C
18	I love for my husband to compliment my appearance	A
	I love that my husband listens to me and respect my ideas	B
19	I can’t help but touch my husband when he’s close by	E
	My husband sometimes runs errands for me, and I appreciates that	D
20	My husband deserves an award for all the things he does to help me	D
	I’m sometimes amazed at how thoughtful my husband’s gifts to me are	C
21	I love having my husband’s undivided attention	B
	I love that my husband helps clean the house	D
22	I look forward to seeing what my husband gives me for my birthday	C
	I never get tired of hearing my husband tell me that I am important to him	A
23	My husband lets me know he loves me by giving me gifts	C
	My husband show his love by helping me without me having to ask	D
24	My husband doesn’t interrupt me when I am talking, and I like that	B
	I never get tired of receiving gifts from my husband	C
25	My husband is good about asking how he can help when I’m tired	D
	It doesn’t matter where we go, I just like going places with my husband	B
26	I love cuddling with my husband	E
	I love surprise gifts from my husband	C
27	My husband’s encouraging words give me confidence	A
	I love to watch movie with my husband	B
28	I couldn’t ask for any better gifts than the ones my husband gives me	C
	I love it that my husband can’t keep his hand off me	E
29	It means a lot to me when my husband helps me despite being busy	D
	It makes me feel really good when my husband tells me he appreciates me	A
30	I love hugging and kissing my husband after we’ve been apart for a while	E
	I love hearing my husband tell me that he missed me	A

我的选择：

1	E	7	A	13	A	19	E	25	D
2	D	8	E	14	E	20	D	26	E
3	B	9	B	15	D	21	D	27	A
4	D	10	D	16	E	22	A	28	E
5	E	11	B	17	D	23	D	29	A
6	E	12	E	18	B	24	B	30	E

我的总结：

A = 5     B = 5    C = 0   D = 9    E = 11  

A = Words of Affirmation
B = Quality Time
C = Receiving Gifts
D = Acts of Service
E = Physical Touch

* 看来我是疯了。。。C = 0

两粒半熟蛋

我330分

常想不思

原帖由 两粒半熟蛋 于 7-5-2009 11:21 AM 发表
我330分

不是算分数的，是看你选择A, B, C, D,E 各多少，之后，才分析你对另一半的要求。

可以说你最高到最低的排列吗？ （e.g: 我的列子：E , D , A , B , C)

Eugina

  

怎么玩法？

Eugina

主楼，你在啊？

常想不思

原帖由 Eugina 于 7-5-2009 12:07 PM 发表
  

怎么玩法？

每一提里，有两个选择，你只可以选一个你认为对你最重要的。。。

然后，总结：A几个？B几个？C几个？D几个？E几个？

把你选择的答案的总结写出来，然后我们一同分享。。。

惟

怎样玩
人家数学烂啦

惟

可是。。人家。。人家没有husband啦

Eugina

原帖由 常想不思 于 7-5-2009 12:14 PM 发表


每一提里，有两个选择，你只可以选一个你认为对你最重要的。。。

然后，总结：A几个？B几个？C几个？D几个？E几个？

把你选择的答案的总结写出来，然后我们一同分享。。。

   我的数学。。。。超烂的。。。

等等哟。。。。我玩玩看。。。。

yeoksan

《爱的五种语言》
这本书，我看过中文版的。个人觉得它对于人际关系有着很大的帮助，因为爱并不局限于男女之间的爱情，它还概括亲子关系。

爱的语言之一：肯定的言词
爱的目的不是得到你想要的，而是为了你所爱之人的福祉去做些什么。无论如何，这是事实：当我们听到具定的言词时，我们就会被激励，愿意回报。

爱的语言之二：精心的时刻
  精心时刻的中心意思是“同在一起。”不单指接近……同在一起乃是跟彼此注意力的焦点有关。

爱的语言之三：接受礼物
  如果你配偶的主要爱语是按受礼物，那么，你就可以成为送礼物的高手。事实上，这是最容易学到的爱的语言之一。此外，还有一种无形的礼物，就是你自己，你可以把“在场作伴”作为厚礼，献给你的配偶。

爱的语言之四：服务的行动
  所谓服务的行动，是指做你的配偶想要你做的事。你借着替他（她）服务，而使他（地）高兴；借着他（她）做事，来表示你对他（她）的爱。

爱的语言之五：身体的接触
  身体的接触可以建立或破坏一种关系；它可以传达恨或者爱。对主要的爱语是身体触的人来说，身体的触摸远胜于“我恨你”或“我爱你”的字句。


我觉得自己的爱语是：服务的行动.这一点，老公做得很好。呵呵...

常想不思

原帖由 yeoksan 于 7-5-2009 12:26 PM 发表
《爱的五种语言》
这本书，我看过中文版的。个人觉得它对于人际关系有着很大的帮助，因为爱并不局限于男女之间的爱情，它还概括亲子关系。

我觉得自己的爱语是：服务的行动.这一点，老公做得很好。呵呵...

了解一个朋友/ 爱侣，最重要的是明白什么是对方的爱语 ~

就好如，你的爱语是‘接受礼物‘型的，但是，你爱侣的爱语是'肯定的言词'，当他说：‘亲爱的，我爱你！‘
可能不比送礼物给你更令你感到被爱。

每个人的爱语都不相同，所以，这问卷的真正目的是，让你更了解你身边朋友/爱侣的爱语。。。好让彼此更有默契、更。。。

就好像 yeoksan，期待跟得到的都一致 ~

Eugina

A=5,
B=6,
C=6,
D=7,
E=6.....

小牡丹彬

我的总结:

A=6    B=7    C=3    D=4    E=10

原来我的爱语是 :  1.身体的接触 physical touch
                 2.精心的时刻 quality time
                 3.肯定的言词 words of affirmation
                 4.服务的行动 acts of service
                 5.接受礼物 receiving gift

其实我也喜欢礼物的......

常想不思

原帖由 Eugina 于 7-5-2009 01:13 PM 发表
A=5,
B=6,
C=6,
D=7,
E=6.....

喜欢对方行动型的吗？

记得，要让对方知道你‘爱的话语‘，那么，你俩的默契就会升华到另外一给境界。。。

祝福你！

常想不思

原帖由 小牡丹彬 于 7-5-2009 01:26 PM 发表
我的总结:

A=6    B=7    C=3    D=4    E=10

原来我的爱语是 :  1.身体的接触 physical touch
                                2.精心的时刻 quality time
                                3.肯定的言词 words of affirmation
                                4.服务的行动 acts of service
                                5.接受礼物 receiving gift

其实我也喜欢礼物的......

让对方知道你爱的话语是‘身体的接触‘，一个简单的拥抱、一个深情的吻 。。。如果，你期待他的拥抱、他的吻 ~

怎么跟我的一样？我的E=11

对我来说E的诠译很广，当我的姐妹sms跟我说：Dear, hug hug you，我会感觉我已经很幸福的被拥抱着。
不需真正的身体接触，时空上，已经做到身体接触的一种 ~

Eugina

原帖由 常想不思 于 7-5-2009 01:39 PM 发表


喜欢对方行动型的吗？

记得，要让对方知道你‘爱的话语‘，那么，你俩的默契就会升华到另外一给境界。。。

祝福你！   

啊？没解答的噢？

轻描淡写

我的总结是:Ａ７　Ｂ３　Ｃ３　Ｄ８　Ｅ９
每样的爱语都比较平均吧．

我看到２２题就很好笑,
我另一半会关起房门自己和自己大大说我是他最重要的人.
可是在他妈妈面前就会变了说他妈妈是他最重要的人.
那题我选Ａ

Eugina

呵呵，我还是不会。。。。。

常想不思

原帖由 Eugina 于 7-5-2009 02:02 PM 发表

啊？没解答的噢？

yeoksan 在 #10已经清楚列明，每个字母所含的意义了。。。

Eugina

原帖由 常想不思 于 7-5-2009 02:32 PM 发表


yeoksan 在 #10已经清楚列明，每个字母所含的意义了。。。   

噢。。。。。不好意思噢版主。。。。