夕夕 丽鹿 糸糸 II - 前一部的延续篇

多麗絲

攻心/城府深，都是很厉害的感觉。
其他的机会，有劳了。
耐心等待，有什么状况请通知我。
还有没别的？

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不谢，转贴啊，因为我都写不出这么了不起的文章，然又让我看见别人的好作品，所以就贴上来了。

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那就多学学敞开吧（跟封闭反义）。
感觉很像在叫你变成暴露狂...

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多麗絲

Seeing others' problems as they are reflected through our own hearts lets us fully identify with their issues and lend a hand more effectively. Getting out of the way of our own desires allows us to understand more completely what other people need, since we align ourselves with them once we open our hearts to their wants. Our hearts have a wisdom that we often overlook. By opening ourselves up to this wisdom, however, we are able to access the real power of our compassion, which helps us give with a more sincere and honest intent. By listening and responding with your hear, you will provide invaluable support and comfort to others.

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用心。
用心。

别老是一直用脑。

cover

开玩笑的啦~

不是神婆，不是神婆

多麗絲

打不死的精神
就是死都不放弃
放弃
对打不死来说
是最没有选择时候的选择（因为觉得很孬）

其实也不知道为什么就是要那么有韧性
就是觉得一定还有伸展的空间
所以放弃是很对不起的事情
当然也不是什么都要扒死不放（因为那叫执著）
而是对于做事的态度
要能坚持到成功

才说咧
我找了2天的都市丛林动物基因解码测验
但给我找到的都是开不到的http://cola.sina.com.tw
后来利用有关测验的老师名字
找到了她的网页

作了测验之后，
却又老是给我三八的“您的访问的地址有问题,请稍候再试或者从首页开始吧”
什么结果都没出来

试了又试
试了又试
还是不能
一气之下我把网址拷贝转到IE去尝试（一向都用火狐比较多）就ok了！

看，是不是打不死？


成绩终于成功地出来啦
结果我是变色龙orz

生存能力强啦，说我（那些不喜欢我的人冷冷地说：“根本就是擅长伪装的家伙”）

准不准都好
既然给我搞惦了
当然要拿出来给大家玩
http://www.iloveeq.com/eqtest/test_animal.php

动物基因分析报告
  哇，你有着令人炫目的丛林求生绝活。身为变色龙的你，生活的最高指导原则，就是「以善变应万变」。 在工作上，你有时候作风强势，喜爱独来独往，有时候又亲切友善，擅长团队作战。而在爱情方面，遇到心仪对象你会大胆进攻，当事与愿违时也能随遇而安。

优点： 达尔文说：「适者生存」，你的多变性造就了你绝佳的适应能力，在丛林里很能机伶聪慧地调适自己，以因应各种环境。同时你令人捉摸不定的性格，也为你在爱情上增添许多迷人魅力，让人为你痴迷不已。

提醒： 嗯，「善变」的特质有时也可能成为你达成目标的阻碍。事实上有许多人都不知该如何和捉摸不定的人相处，因此极可能把和你一起工作视为畏途。此外，在情人的眼中你忽而体贴忽而冷漠，很难让对方有安全感，爱情就不易开花结果。

提醒你应把善变的作风当成重大改变时的适应策略，而非日常生活的惯性行为，才能更开心自在的做只成功的变色龙。  



p/s: 分布图是这样的 -

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[ 本帖最后由 多麗絲 于 19-9-2008 03:32 PM 编辑 ]

weekian1

原帖由 blackbird 于 15-9-2008 08:41 PM 发表


我现在是牙肉痛痛痛

是热气吧？多喝水~会好一点的

原帖由 多麗絲 于 18-9-2008 06:00 PM 发表
羚羊
表面上，你看似冷漠得有些孤傲，其實你卻有不一樣的熱情；在你的心底更有對世間一切最純真的想法。你有情卻不多情，你可以改變卻不善變。膚淺的異性不會接近你，走進你世界的必定是有內涵的人。

那我应该可以做这样的结论：
不是我的朋友的人都没有什么内涵

多麗絲

Finding Another Vantage Point

The ocean can look very different, depending on whether you are standing at the shore, soaring above in a plane, or swimming beneath its waves. Likewise, a mountain can look very different relative to where you are standing. Each living thing sees the world from its unique vantage point. While from your window you may be seeing what looks like a huge shrub, a bird in its nest is getting an intimate view of that tree’s leafy interior. Meanwhile, a beetle sees only a massive and never-ending tree trunk. Yet all three of you are looking at the same tree.

Just as a shadow that is concealed from one point of view is easily seen from another, it is possible to miss a fantastic view. That is, unless you are willing to see what’s in front of you through different eyes. Seeing the world from another perspective, whether spatially or mentally, can introduce you to all sorts of hidden treasures. The root of the discovery process often lies in finding another way of looking at the world. The common human reaction to insects is one example. Spinning its web in a dark corner, a spider may seem drab, frightening, and mysterious. But seen up close weaving silver snowflakes between the branches of a tree, they can look like colored jewels.

Sometimes, there are experiences in life that from your vantage point may seem confusing, alarming, or worrisome. Or there may be events that look insignificant from where you are standing right now. Try seeing them from another point of view. How does the situation look now? Try burying your face in the grass and looking at the world from a bug’s vantage point. Explore your home as if you were a small child. Take a ride in a small aircraft and experience the world from a bird’s eye view. Just as kneeling down or standing on a chair can help you find a lost object, so can seeing a broader or the more focused picture help you find wisdom or hidden treasures. In doing so, you’ll experience a very different world.

别尽在一个角落说这个世界小，真正小的自己，真正能大的也是自己。

是这样吧？

多麗絲

还记得那部musical THE PRODUCERS么？
Uma Thurman 在里面的名字被用在阿茱的msn上，我笑到翻。
截一段她的自我介绍：


Ulla:                  My name is Ulla Inka Hanson Benson Yanson Tallen Hallen Swadon Swanson.
Max Bialystock: What is your first name?
Ulla:                  Oh that was my first name. Would you like to hear my last name?
Max Bialystock: We don't have the time.

呜啦英嘎汉森边森烟森多冷活冷刷顿栓森。

weekian1

原帖由 多麗絲 于 19-9-2008 04:05 PM 发表
还记得那部musical THE PRODUCERS么？
Uma Thurman 在里面的名字被用在阿茱的msn上，我笑到翻。
截一段她的自我介绍：


Ulla:                  My name is Ulla Inka Hanson Benson Yanson Tallen Hallen Swa ...

丝~
那真的是真名哦？好长哦~
如果要叫她，我会很累~
老板如果想叫她做东西，想到要叫她的名字就会很累，然后叫其他同事做了

跟你分享我的阿猫阿狗论，按这里

[ 本帖最后由 weekian1 于 19-9-2008 06:00 PM 编辑 ]

多麗絲

在这个资讯发达的年代，我们的有没有头壳坏掉？
做个抵死的测验吧~

洋葱头脑残检定

我的成绩是：

竟然还死不去！Orz~~

zhaoqi

进来玩游戏，轻松轻松下
此刻我就是名副其实的脑残啊
（明天有期考，不小心进来发神经了）

我的成绩：



脑残完毕，滚回去继续啃书

weekian1

丝～
最近看了一本叫《人间词话》的书，突然脑残了想写一首词，虽然自知词汇才华不足，但是还是按奈不了。
你的文学才华远胜于我，希望你给我一些指点咯～
按这里

edenskim

我的脑残38分

多麗絲

There were 3 construction workers sitting 10-20 stories up on one of their jobs. One was a rookie and the other two were seasoned pros. We find them taking a break and eating their lunches. One of the veterans opens up his sandwich and says, "Another bologna sandwich. I'm so sick of these bologna sandwiches. If I find a bologna sandwich in my lunch tomorrow, I'm
going to kill myself. I'm just going to jump. I've had it!"

The next day, the 3 workers are back at lunch again. The veteran opens his lunch and finds another bologna sandwich. He says, "That's it. I've had it." And with that, he removed his hard hat and just jumped… The rookie looked over at the other experienced construction worker who was just sitting there eating his lunch as if nothing had even happened.

The rookie said, "How can you sit there just eating your sandwich and not even have a little emotion about what that guy just did?"

"Son", said the vet, "that man packs his own lunch everyday."

Remember this story every time you have a bad attitude about the work you must put in to achieve the success you dream about. You pack your own lunch everyday. What attitude do you choose to pack?"

上面这篇文章很有意思。

态度决定很多东西。外在的事情，不是我们可以决定的。然而，要怎样去面对，完全由我们自己控制。
我深信每个人都会在人生的路上失意甚至几乎一蹶不振，但到底是要提气把它踢走，还是让它使到自己再也没有斗志，那都取决于一念而已。
挫折不是罪过。
它只是希望你变得更强。

我，是这么相信着。

多麗絲

我的手边放着一本书。
书名叫做《不只有想法更要有做法》。
调整自己的内心，是第一步；把思想推向另一个山头来使出做法，那是重要的另外一步。
经常都会在瓶颈的地方感觉窒息，然而对于不满只有无力感是不可能突破这个逼迫的。
再怎么说，都要冲过那个窄小的局限处，才能抵达开阔的天空，不是么？
我也彷徨，但那不是宿命，因为每当一个阻碍在跟前的时候，我知道：“是时候又跨前了。”
老实说，老是轻而易举地就能从一个地方蹬到另外一个地方，那么人生还有什么可以追求的？

“借力打力”，是我很喜欢的一句。

既然我不是万能的，我当然得动动脑，结合多些智慧，才好把事情办好，不是么？

A wise martial arts Master was ready to pass the mantle of authority of his organization to his number one student. The Master prepared a final test. He asked his student to move a large granite rock from one location to another before sunset.
He told the student to use all of his power to accomplish the feat.

The student tried and tried but could barely budge the rock. Just as he was about to give up the master said, "Use all your power. Have you considered using a lever?" In near contempt the student responded, "I didn't know I could use a lever." The student hurried and found a strong pole and began moving the rock. However, time was running out and he realized he couldn't accomplish the feat in time. In near despair he sat down. The master quietly asked, "Have you used all of your power?" The student cried, "Yes, I'm physically drained, mentally perplexed, and spiritually empty. I have no more power". "Oh no", said the master, "you have more power than that."

The student looked up at the smiling master and sighed, "Where?" At which the master said, "Right here", as he pointed to himself. "Did you ask for my help? You have the power to ask for my help. Use all of your power."

"Will you help me?" asked the humbled student. "Yes", said the master. Then, retrieving a golden whistle from his tunic, he signaled his other students who had been hiding in the hills, to join them. They quickly moved the rock to the appointed
place.

这，正是我最想说的话。

多麗絲

其一 - VISION (远见)

All effective leaders have a vision of what they must accomplish. That vision becomes the energy behind every effort and the force that pushes through all the problems.

Visualization is the process of seeing what no one else can see. It’s your job to look into the future. Without a firm grasp within yourself of what that future will look like, it’ll be difficult to see where you’re headed. When you create a Clear Vision of what you’ll accomplish in the next 90 days, 6 months, 1 year, etc., and convince yourself to have faith in that Vision, you’re on your way to success.

Vision creates Passion! Passion in turn creates Discipline. If you’re struggling with getting yourself to take the proper discipline required to win, first get passionate about where you’ll end up by following your own leadership.

Remember this as you work on defining clearly your vision and future success – If you can’t see it and believe it, how can you ever get there? When you make the effort to first see and believe a winning vision, you’ll work hard to make it a reality.

“Vision without action is merely a dream. Action without vision just passes the time. Vision with action can change the world.” – Joel A. Barker

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其二 - MOTIVATION (动力)

Motivation is an intrinsic response; it comes from inside and cannot be imposed from the outside. Motivation comes from wanting to do something of one’s own free will. If you are free, you can choose to do something.

Create conditions where people feel compelled to motivate themselves. They must “want” to put in that extra effort and hard work in order to fulfill their own vision of success. One of the best ways to start this process is to show by example. You must learn to motivate yourself first. Show others how motivated you are by communicating clearly, empowering through influence, challenging respectively, and showing commitment.

“Leadership is based on a spiritual quality; the power to inspire others to follow.” – Vince Lombardi

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其三 - TRUST (信任)

Think long and hard about that. The important people in your life are placing their complete trust in you. Trust that you will truly do everything in your power to help achieve your vision. Trust that you’ll in turn help them achieve every bit of their potential.

To gain and keep the trust of the people you come in contact with, be the person they can always count on. If you say you’ll be there at a specific time, be there early. If you say you’ll do something, do it!

There can be no compromise on this issue. Remember, many people today feel they don’t have a whole lot they can count on. Be
the rock in their lives. They need it.

”To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved” - George MacDonald

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其四 - SYNERGY (配合)

I hope you saw the larger picture: no matter the situation, whether it’s sports, business, family, friends, etc, people want to feel like they belong. They respond to this feeling of “belonging” and it creates a “synergy” that then creates harmony and success for the people involved.

Most people don’t understand this aspect of life. They spend too much time in pain and suffering. They spend too much time arguing and fighting over things that just don’t matter. That’s why it’s vital that you understand this subject. You need
to be the person who unites those in your family or business. You need to be the person to help others get to know one another to the point where they CARE about one another.

Once there’s caring, there’s synergy. Once there’s synergy, there’s a “team” atmosphere. Once people feel united, success
follows.

“Synergy is the highest activity of life; it creates new, untapped alternatives; it values and exploits the mental, emotional and psychological differences between people.” – Stephen Covey

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其五 - BUILD YOUR LEADERSHIP SKILLS DAILY (每天累积领导能力)

Life skills such as building trust and developing synergy are leadership skills. You need to seek out and learn from as many
leadership sources as possible.

You need to be patient with yourself. Wherever you are in your leadership skills is where you’re supposed to be. Now, begin accepting responsibility and work on improving those skills one day at a time.

Will you make mistakes? Most certainly! But don’t beat yourself up over it. Learn and continue to build your skills. The mark of a successful person is how many times they can get back up and keep going after falling down.

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最后 - BE A LEADER (成为一个领导者)

Leadership is influence. That’s it. Nothing more; nothing less.

“He who thinketh he leadeth and hath no one following him is only taking a walk.” – John Maxwell

You are so important. Your leadership is important.

You "influence" your family and others around you. How you decide to do that is an important decision you'll make. You’re in a position to help mold others into productive people who feel good about themselves. You need to be sure you get good at creating prosperity in their lives, "influencing" them to maintain self-discipline, helping them with their over-all attitudes, guiding them with their priorities, showing them integrity, etc. These are all the things good leaders do in order to "influence" their followers to follow a person of character.

Just be a Leader.

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Look at your life in a positive way and helped influence yourself to take the next steps in your journey to becoming the person you envision.

多麗絲

What is the answer to every difficult circumstance in life?
Take the positive path.

Choosing the positive path can be easy at some times in our life and more difficult at other times. When everything is going along well, when we are on a roll, choosing the positive path just flows through us as an easy, natural choice. When something negative comes along it can be far more challenging for us to choose the positive path. But choose it we must! No matter how challenging the negativity may be, there is simply no other way to bring our lives back into positivity.   

If negative situations appear, you must use your will and refuse to lower yourself to negative thoughts, words, actions, and emotions. Use your will and decide that not only will you focus on the positive, but you will ramp up the positive in every thought, word, and action of your day.

It takes determination, strength, faith, and the power of your will to focus on the positive when intense negativity descends, but remember that the Universe and the law of attraction are with you. As you focus on the positive, focus more on the positive, think of the positive, speak of the positive, and take positive and good actions, the law of attraction will give your life wings. Suddenly you will look around you and you will find that the negativity has gone, and that your life has been filled with goodness and joy.   

- Rhonda Byrne (The Secret)

每每在无力感填满心怀的时候，耳际会回荡着2种声音。

冷冷的“再撑啊！再强啊！不是很有毅力的么？”；以及温暖的“来，站起来，再多一点点就可以了”。
低落着地被浇，但是很不甘心。为什么我这么努力却依然要承受这样的为难？硬是要转换心态，硬是要安慰自己说：“就是老天看好我可以找到智慧，所以给我机会去接受挑战。”
这算不算是阿Q精神？
屈指算算，日子越来越短了，我什么时候会重新找到转弯处？

多麗絲

亲爱的豆，
今天9点开会好么？



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加油！

多麗絲

Acknowledging that the only limitations you have in life are the ones that you create. Perhaps because you have seen what negative thinking has brought to your life, you may wish to change the way you view your future. Try seeing it as something that is open and extends in front of you with endless chances for love, success, and wonder. Becoming aware of any thoughts you tend to have that can hinder your growth might help you better envision a future where everything that you desire can come true, and you might consider spending a few minutes in meditation watching your thoughts as they pass. While meditating, you may want to make note of the thoughts that are negatively focused on your future. Try changing these ideas to better reflect a more positive view, and you may notice that you can cultivate even more hope for what is possible.

Our present thoughts set the path for our future prospects. If we focus on what we can't do, then our lives will be filled with a sense of helplessness and fear of trying anything new since we already have the feeling that we are destined to fail. As we become more conscious of our thoughts, however, we will begin to see that we have the power to change them and to transform our lives as a result. Concentrating on the limitless possibilities that await you will make them a reality.

所有的好事正在发生了！

咖啡豆

亲爱的絲，今晚有约咩？ （我假假忘记）

多麗絲

昭琪，
呵呵，呼吸一下再加油。
嗯，真好。


小末，
你来的两个帖子我都没法儿回。
真差劲啦我！


豆豆，
哦，那就没有吧.........（我也假假附和着说）

你就想得美咧！9点，迟到的请吃大餐！