By the time the average person finishes college he or she will have taken over 2,600 tests, quizzes and exams. The 'right answer' approach becomes deeply ingrained in our thinking. This may be fine for some mathematical problems, where there is in fact only one right answer. The difficulty is that most of life isn't that way. Life is ambiguous; there are many right answers - all depending on what you are looking for. But if you think there is only one right answer, then you'll stop looking as soon as you find one.
Roger von Oech
American Author and Creativity Coach
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生命本从多个角度来看,当然没有绝对的答案。
求取智慧的第一步:放下自我。
东西啊,看很简单、说很简单,做也很简单。
重点是:你肯不肯真的去做。
肯不肯,这个最难。
昨晚看ROCKY BALBOA,里面有段戏是很到肉的。
"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't no sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permenantly if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much can you take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now if you know what's your worth then go out and get what you worth but you gotta be willing to take the hits and not pointing fingers and say you ain't what you wanna be because of him or her or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain't you, you're better than that!"
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